Top Pregnancy Tips: Keeping the Romance Alive

Keeping the romance alive is an important part of any relationship. Read on to discover how to nurture your romance during pregnancy.

Romantic tribulations

Having a baby is a huge life change for both you and your partner. You may find that you have stopped thinking like a couple, but rather as parents-to-be. To add to this, you might also be tired, hormonal, and cranky. All these factors can certainly put a strain on your relationship.

Rekindling the flame

In the face of so many changes, keeping the romance alive can sometimes be challenging. Here are some tips to help you out:

Communicate

Talking about taking out the trash, picking up the dry cleaning, and buying baby supplies can be a mood killer. It’s important to remind your partner from time to time that you love him/her and appreciate him/her. While communication doesn’t have to be all about engaging your partner in deep conversations, you and your partner should be open with one another and discuss your fears, feelings, and any issues.

Get in the mood

Between nausea and morning sickness, it may be hard to think about getting in the mood. If you are feeling unwell, romantic intimacy may be challenging. On the other hand, if you are feeling well, don’t make it a habit to use your pregnancy as an excuse for “not being in the mood.” Getting in the mood may be something you have to work at initially. Yet, if you set time aside for romantic escapades with your partner and simply go with the flow, you may find the mood comes with time. Try keeping the romance alive by giving each other massages, writing each other loving or humorous texts during the day, and going out on a date every once in a while.

Be spontaneous

Keep him on his toes. Scheduling in romance and trying to forcefully get in the mood can sometimes be a buzz kill for keeping the romance alive. Often, all it takes is a surprise gift, sultry kiss, or afternoon getaway.

Sex during pregnancy

There are many myths regarding sex during pregnancy. Don’t let these deter you. Check with your physician regarding safety during sex. In most cases, it is completely safe to enjoy sex with your partner throughout the pregnancy.